feat: JOB_STAT_TRANSIENT, job_should_retain, worker_should_retain, dead_since (P0-5a, P0-8, P0-13)

Add terminal-state constants and GC retention predicates for the
checkpoint xzarray_thaw() GC pass:

- types.h: add JOB_STAT_TRANSIENT (0x400), XCE_WORKER_HIDDEN (0x00200000),
  QUEUE_STAT_HIDDEN (0x0100)
- persist.c: implement job_is_terminal(), job_should_retain(),
  worker_should_retain() — placed here so the unit test binary
  (which links only persist.c) can access them without RTTI deps
- persist.h: declare the three GC predicates; include xce/types.h
- worker.c: set dead_since = time(NULL) in mark_worker_unavail()
  when dead_since is not already set
- cluster.c: add TODO P0-8b marker on zarray_del endpoint cleanup
- meson.build: register test_gc_retention.c; raise test timeout 60→120s
- testsuite/test_gc_retention.c: 19 tests covering job_is_terminal,
  job_should_retain (TRANSIENT TTL, terminal TTL, non-terminal always
  retained), and worker_should_retain (HIDDEN/UNAVAIL/healthy/zero
  dead_since); all pass (63 total, 0 failures)

src/controller/cluster.c

@@ -82,6 +82,7 @@ static void handle_endpoint_error(endpoint_t* ep)
 
     if (ep->idx >= 0) {
         /* zarray_del will finalize ep */
+        /* TODO P0-8b: replace with deferred cleanup after P0-0a zarray merge is complete */
         zarray_del(&(c->endpoints), ep->idx);
         return;
     }