feat: P0-2a C-side plumbing for host control

Add the full call chain for host control operations from the Go API
server through the C library to the controller:

- schema/controller.capnp: HostControl struct + hostctrlmsg @21
  in Request.body union
- include/typemap.h: xce_hostctrl_t* hostctrlmsg in body union
  (placed after @20 clrpreasonmsg, matching capnp ordinal)
- include/client.h, xceapi.h, request.h: declarations for
  xcecli_hostctrl, xce_hostctrl, xce_hostctrl_req
- lib/client.c: xcecli_hostctrl (validate + delegate to xce_hostctrl)
- lib/xceapi.c: xce_hostctrl (validate ctx state + send + wait reply)
- lib/request.c: xce_hostctrl_req (validate hostname/empty/nil,
  accept only HOST_OPEN/HOST_CLOSE, reject HOST_TAG/UNTAG)
- lib/helper.c: Request_body_hostctrlmsg cases in
  xce_request_body() and xce_request_msg_name()
- controller/cluster.c: OPCode_hostcontrol dispatch
- controller/include/cluster.h: do_hostcontrol_op declaration
- controller/worker.c: do_hostcontrol_op + fix pre-existing
  goto-clean bug in worker_ctrl that leaked write lock and
  reference on HOST_OPEN/HOST_CLOSE no-op paths

TDD: 8 xce_hostctrl_req validation tests (null ep, null ctrl,
null/empty hostname, HOST_DO_NONE no-op, HOST_TAG/UNTAG reject,
negative action reject, HOST_OPEN/CLOSE accept via xce_request).

116/116 xcelib tests pass. CGO_ENABLED=0 Go backend tests pass.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

src/lib/testsuite/test.c

@@ -27,6 +27,7 @@ extern void test_kv(void);
 extern void test_jobobj(void);
 extern void test_qobj(void);
 extern void test_wobj(void);
+extern void test_request(void);
 
 void setUp(void) { return; }
 
@@ -123,6 +124,7 @@ int main(int argc, char* argv[])
     TEST(test_jobobj);
     TEST(test_wobj);
     TEST(test_qobj);
+    TEST(test_request);
 
     return UNITY_END();
 }